Hi Jim. It was again my pleasure speaking with you a little while ago. This is a copy of the letter I posted elsewhere as well.
Yes, it’s a shame when Parental Alienation is brought forth from either the mother or the father in question. It’s when the government goes out of their way to help one parent and abuse the other, that we have a quagmire of issues.
Many on PCSR & CNBP know my situation. A girl I was with for a few weeks (at most) in Texas while I was living there between 1991 – 1992, before moving back to New York, had contacted me out of the clear blue in 2005 to say I was the father of her first born 12 year old boy. I told her I was actually thrilled to know for sure, but when the CSE started sending their threatening letters, I denied taking the DNA test on principle only. It had absolutely nothing to do about the money. It was the way they all went about it.
Although there is absolutely no recourse for me at this time, as a default judgment was handed down to me & no attorney will touch my case, I now owe over $14,000 +++ on a now 17 year old boy I’ve never known & it’s quite possible I never will.
Believe it or not, I don’t hold the mother responsible. Even though she downright lied to me when she initially contacted me (stating that she wanted no money, just for her boy to know who his biological father was), I know in my soul I did the right thing from the start. I thought I would get contempt of court & be able to fight it in NY. I learned the hard way. What they say goes. There’s nothing I can do. I can not take the DNA test now. Not even at my own expense.
If you get pulled over for possible DWI and you refuse the breathalyzer test, you are automatically assumed guilty. This is because in 24 hours they can’t get the proof they need. I can understand that; but if I have a son, he will always be my son well after 24 hours. The government can’t comprehend that common sense. They also can’t comprehend that by denying me to take the DNA test (at my own expense, as I’ve stated to them & many others), they are jeopardizing his life & future family because if he, or they, should ever need medical assistance where I could have been of help, it won’t be there.
Yet, they want us to believe that they’re in it for the children. Hell NO. It’s about CORRUPT GREED ONLY.
Keep up the great work. I just know someday we all will help them wake up.
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