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THIS PAGE HAS BEEN PRESENTED TWICE IN THIS PETITION; YES IT IS THAT IMPORTANT! IT EXPOSES THE “EVIL MONEY TRAIL” AND WASTE/ABUSE OF TAX PAYER MONEY.
NOTE: I wanted to call this page, “Slippin’ It By the People… but definitely not For the People!” but I didn’t have the space. Keep in mind as you start to comprehend and understand what is taking place with your tax dollars, Child Support is not the only Gov’t program that has a similar structure. (Using your money (taxes) calling it their money, routing it through the Federal Reserve, making more money off from you and calling it their (Gov’t.) money again.))) Almost sounds like a Money Laundering scheme doesn’t it? It will.
To whom it may concern,
It is with great respect that I am presenting our cause for relief on the following issues.
1.) Parental/Child Alienation
2.) Excessive Enforcement Actions;
Debtors’ Prison under the guise of Contempt of Court.
Drivers’ License Suspension
Professional License Suspension… etc.
As you read and start to discover the corrupt money trail (a money trail that routes every penny collected through the Federal Reserve), please keep these questions in mind:
Which is less burden on the tax payers:
a.) Tax payers pay for Welfare only (like we used to), for those who need assistance. Because we know that they will continue to prolong welfare for those involved in Child Support, so the Government may ‘legally’ LOCK them into receiving Child Support money that they may circulate through the Federal Reserve Bank.
or;
b.) Tax payers continue to labor and pay for the present Child Support System to include:
What are the Family Courts, County, State and Federal level establishments up to and why?
and,
How has the American Tax Payer been lied to, wasting and costing us more money by a Money Hungry Machine that has no limits to its’ Greed.
On the19th of January 2010, I was given the opportunity to point out the root cause of the extremely serious problem within our Family Court System… unfortunately I didn’t seize that opportunity. I had been told at that meeting with the Honorable Senator Robert P. Casey Jr.’s correspondent Ms. Sara C. Mabry, that the Congress and Senate is aware that there is a problem, but do not know if it is at the State or Federal level.
My strong opinion (and it is shared by many), is that the problem exists at both State and Federal levels, however the solution rests at the Federal level. The root cause (catalyst of the horrific situations, fraud and abuse of tax payer dollars that are occurring presently), stems from the Welfare Reform Act Title IV-D and the FMS Federal Management Service that circulates monies collected through the Federal Reserve Bank.
Title IV-D is a ‘tax payer’ incentive program that allows the CSEO, Child Support Enforcement Office to receive a matched percentage of dollars from the Federal Government (tax payer), against monies documented as spent by CSEO for collecting child support payments. On the backside of this, are penalties for States that do not ‘produce’… proficiency penalties that cost the State money.
Title IV-D was originally sold to the American Public as a way to relieve tax payers from supporting single parents on welfare assistance and to get those receiving assistance off the welfare program. This has ‘intentionally’ failed totally, as recipients of welfare are now receiving two checks in the mail and no-one is leaving the welfare program; neither are they encouraged to do so. Why? Because welfare recipients LOCK both people involved into the Child Support System with no chance of escape. The tax payer (American Citizens), are actually spending more in tax dollars due to the fraud, waste and abuse of the Title IV-D incentive program.
To top that, there is a legal loop hole to get more non-welfare recipients into the Title IV-D program. (Individuals are intentionally found to be in arrears through loopholes in the law, thus forcing individuals that are not receiving welfare and that have no need to be in the Child Support System to be ‘locked’ into the Title IV-D Incentive Program… $$$.).
The following paragraph will give more detail and help clarify what we have spoken of thus far.
Locked in? If the custodial parent receives welfare, that immediately enrolls that couple into the Title IV-D program where they do not have the option to leave the Child Support system; ever. A non-custodial parent that has arrears imposed, or finds themselves unable to keep up financially with their Child Support obligations, also finds themselves locked into the Title IV-D program with no chance of ever escaping. (Even if the arrearages have been paid, that couple is forever imprisoned by the system dictating, visitation, custody… etc.). The situation where non-custodial parents are not found in arrears and the custodial parent is not receiving welfare assistance, those couples may come to an agreement and elect to leave the Child Support System. This is an ‘extremely’ rare set of circumstances, due to the fact that it is to the County, State and Federal Governments financial benefit to find any means possible to enroll couples within the Title IV-D Incentive Program. Many will owe arrears till the very day they depart from this world. The reason behind this will soon become clear when we get to the FMS Federal Management Service and their obigation in this ‘horrific’ mess.
ARE NUMBERS BEING INFLATED TO REFLECT MORE FUNDS SPENT BY CSEO TO COLLECT ON TITLE IV-D?
Brief preparatory example: While in the military I was stationed in Japan and working out of the SJA (Staff Judge Advocates), Office. Near the end of our fiscal budget year, I was given an order along with a fellow soldier, to go to supply and purchase any office related materials that we could get within a certain dollar amount allotted; whether we needed or ever intended to use the office supplies was insignificant. I did ask about this situation, because it really did not make any sense to me and seemed as if something was wrong. The Staff NCO could not fully explain, since he was under orders himself. But he did state that the reason we needed to do this was because this years’ expenditures had to at least match the previous years’ expenses or we would lose funding. Also stated was the military would have no means to petition for greater funding for the next fiscal year if we didn’t use up all the previous years’ funding. I didn’t know then that I participated in stealing from our own American Citizens. A little Honesty would have saved tax payers from what appears to be a present day epidemic of abuse within Federal Funding Programs.
The above example was given to simplify and to help make a mental note to the capabilities and possibilities of a claim made by Author Carol Rhodes, an ex-Director of Child Support Enforcement which turned whistleblower. She has documented the fraud and abuse of a system that she was in control of for nearly two decades. Her video presentation may be seen at PetitionChildSupportReform.com’s home page. She stated that her office was instrumental in training other Child Support Enforcement Offices…
PARENTAL ALIENATION AND THE MONEY MACHINE
According to HHS, Health and Human Services’ 2008 annual statistical report (which HHS uses a disclaimer as to the accuracy of the States numbers)(liability release)), there were 15.7 million cases enrolled in the Child Support system. That is 31.4 million individuals within the system, most of those are awarded Joint Custody; the right and ability to obtain school and medical records… HOWEVER, that is 15.7 million individuals that are not awarded Joint ‘Shared’ Custody! The difference is with Joint Shared Custody, that is to say 50/50 shared physical time spent with their child/ren, there would be no reason to collect child support. This in turn, with the loss of those ‘competent’ parents in the Child Support System, would mean that a ‘vast’ majority of the 15.7 million individuals would not be paying a $25 annual service fee established by President Bush’s “Deficit Reduction Act”, Subtitle C: Child Support sec. 7310 . A blatant ‘Act’ that has nothing what-so-ever to do with collecting money for the Children, nor saving tax payers money.
NOTE: Most non-custodial parents are found unfit through ‘Preponderance of Evidence’, one parent making strong and serious allegations against another without any evidence what-so-ever, which allows the Family Court to award greater physical custody of the child/ren to the parent making the accusation! The greater the difference in time spent with the child/ren, the greater the calculation of the money burden placed upon the non-custodial parent. ‘Beyond a Reasonable Doubt’ does not apply within the Family Court System; specifically Child Support.
WHY ARE THERE OUTRAGEOUS DOLLAR AMOUNTS COURT ORDERED UPON THE NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT?
Presently the OCSE does not have to immediately distribute the funds to the custodial parent. Simply put, there is money to be made off the interest of funds that are allowed to sit and/or rotate through Child Supports Central Treasury. NOTE: (UPDATE: AFTER I PUBLISHED THIS ARTICLE THE FEDERAL MANAGEMENT SERVICE IS NOW KNOWN AS FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT SERVICE AND THE WEBPAGE ON CHILD SUPPORT IS A DEAD LINK UPON THEIR WEBSITE), FMS Federal Management Service, A Bureau of the United States Department of the Treasury. Quote: “The FMS has teamed with the HHS, OCSE in implementing the EFT provision of the DCIA of 1996 in conjunction with the Family Support Act which mandate that State CSE agencies develop the capability to accept EFT/EDI transactions from employers.” According to FMS, the following is a list of Institutions that the money is circulated through prior to being distributed to the custodial parent: 1.) From the Origination of Order/Notice, 2.) Federal Agency, 3.) FMS/Non Treasury Disbursing Office, 4.) Servicing Federal Reserve Bank, 5.) Bank (State CSE Agency Account)… cha ching $$$$
The above paragraph makes me wonder two things:
1. How do tax payers and/or Child Support system, save money when the money circulates through four (4) different institutions, to include two (2) banking systems?
2. Wouldn’t it be far cheaper and save the tax payer money, if the money received went directly to institution number five (5), the local CSE Bank, then distributed in a ‘timely’ matter?
Almost looks like a money laundering operation… with interest!
3. Why do most States allow payments received to be distributed to the Custodial Parent up to 12 months later? Are the Child Support checks that appear to be received in a timely manner by the Custodial Parent, actually rotated funds that have been collecting interest somewhere?
It is more than evident that the greater the money amount the Family Court can award the custodial parent with a Court Order, the more money the Family Court System, County, State and Federal establishments make.
Now that we have established the interest above, let us include monies being profited from regular service charges, (approx. $6), and a minimum charge of $2 upon any monies involving arrears and interest upon the arrears.
The basic math: ((2 + 6) x 12) + 25 = $121 x 15.7 million… $1,899,700,000 dollars!
This does not include interest made off the arrears, and
This does not include interest made off the average $1.8 Billion dollars collected by States for ex. TX, NY…etc.. ($.01 x $1.8 Billion x 50 states = ….)
We have a nearly incomprehensible sum of money being made off the backs of non-custodial parents; Fact! A number so large that it will not fit on my calculator. And we are not even talking about interest made off money circulated through the FMS Federal Management Service.
Where does that interst come from? The same place banks make their money… YOU! Isn”t this great? OPM Other People’s Money making money! One problem to this scheme is that you have to lie to the American Citizens in-order to accomplish it.
DUE PROCESS VIOLATIONS and the EXPEDIENCY OF GETTING THEIR HANDS ON THE MONEY FOR THE CHILDREN
This next golden goose has supported the Title IV-D Incentive Program and has caused/allowed many U.S. Constitutional Rights to be violated.
I am specifically referring to the Bradley Amendment – which allows non-legal employees to practice an enforce law through the administrative offices of Child Support Enforcement and implement civil actions against an individual without the right to trial by jury and without the presence of a Judge (he/she may sign a Court Order at a later date).
Some actions such as drivers license suspension, bank accounts emptied, check cashing privileges frozen, professional license suspensions/revocations, tax interception, property seizure, property liens, interception of accident insurance, emptying of vacation accounts, credit reporting, fishing/hunting licenses discontinued, passport denials, numerously persistent threatening phone calls and mail harassment, front tires on vehicles locked down, pictures on pizza boxes… just to name a few, are all accomplished without you even stepping foot into a Courtroom, or ever receiving a Court Order.
People who make it into a Courtroom usually do so for ‘debtor’s prison’ under the guise of Contempt of Court. Many have gone to jail while making partial payments or while being unemployed. (Remember, these non-custodial parents owe a DEBT through no fault of their own and that nearly 98% of them never wanted a divorce/separation, nor was there any evidence presented to the Family Court that would deem them an unfit parent; only the accusation of another parent.). Our Veterans and the alarming suicide rate is a testimony to the above paragraph. 70% of our Veterans are being divorced/separated prior to even returning home. Of the remaining 30 percent, 90% percent of them will be divorced/separated within 5 years. Most Veterans will find themselves torn from their children because they are no longer fit nor safe parents to be around due to their combat experience.
Most of these people are going to jail for debt, because they are not aware of two Federal Statutes that contain the Elements of the Offense specifically stating that an individual ‘must’ have one (1), the Ability to Pay, prior to even establishing the second (2nd) Element of the Offense, Willful Intent. If individuals are not aware of these two Statutes and do not understand what precisely an Element of the Offense is and how mandating an Element is prior to a conviction… well you will lose your rights under the 14th Amendment; Due Process and Equal Protection Under the Law and find yourself in jail. FACT.
HOW SERIOUS IS THIS SITUATION?
One word: SUICIDE
I greatly appreciate your Patience if you indeed have made it this far. It is impossible for me to convey all the problems, horrific situations and corruption that have compounded themselves over nearly three decades into one presentation letter.
I Pray with all my Heart that I have at least pointed in the correct direction to the answer for the question previously asked; Why? Please understand that I had to try to convey the answer by presenting it collectively over many paragraphs. It would have been far easier just to state that Greed and Lust for Money has been spawned by the Title IV-D Welfare Reform Act and the FMS Federal Management Reserve.
I also Pray that the horrific and unthinkable situations that people have shared with you will help give you the insight and knowledge to see that we have an ‘immeasurable atrocity’ of Human Rights upon our hands. Please help. And most importantly Please read what people are going through and let them know that you do care.
SUMMARY: SAVING TAX PAYERS MONEY???
Again I ask you which is less burden on the tax payers:
a.) Tax payers pay for Welfare only (like we used to), for those who need assistance. Because we know that they will continue to prolong welfare for those involved in Child Support (which is everyone, it’s the Law), so the Government may ‘legally’ LOCK them into receiving Child Support money that they may circulate through the Federal Reserve Bank.
or;
b.) Tax payers continue to labor and pay for the present Child Support System to include:
We need you to Sign this Petition even if you are not directly involved in the Child Support System. My God, how is it any less horrific for these parents who have been ripped away from their children, then it was for those who were ripped away from their children in World War II? We’ve either known, or listened to survivors that have experienced and seen ‘unthinkable’ atrocities, yet for many the most horrific situation they remember is when they have been ‘ripped’ away from children and families.
Have you ever asked yourself, “How is it possible that half of the 31.4 million people (NCP’s and CP’s) in the child support sysem, one out of the two parents involved do not want to be a parent? One is nearly always found detrimental to their child/ren?”
How is it possible that there is always a deadbeat, (the System is creating them at an alarming rate), yet that deadbeat fights to see their child/ren and/or gain custody?
It is obvious that there is something very wrong with this picture; FACT.
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION: Supplied by Bradley Howe.
JOINT ‘SHARED’ CUSTODY… What is it? And why YOU won’t get it!
Every family study published by competent researchers have found that the Childs Best Interest would be best served through ‘equa’l continued contact, emotional nurturing and Love from both parents throughout his/her lifetime. Yet every family court consistently rules on the ‘every other weekend visitation schedule’ for the Non Custodial Parent. Every other weekend is nothing at all. The extensive financial benefits given to the Custodial Parent nurtures complacency and gluttony, which in turn motivates the CP to maintain this visitation schedule. These extensive financial benefits include, but are not limited to: child credits, tax free income each month from the Non custodial parent, and support from DSS programs such as medicaid and child care assistance.
To put this in perspective, every week visitation of two days immediately doubles your time, but does nothing to the Non custodial parents child support obligation in most states. Heres the math:
(NOTE: Joint Custody allows you access to school and medical records. 122 nights does not mean that you have Joint ‘Shared’ Custody. It is Joint ‘Shared’ Custody that allots equal physical time with a child that would eliminate the need for Child Support obligations. When a child resides with you on an equal basis, that child is receiving Child Support without the Government involved. Thus, also allowing the opportunity for future reconciliation; that which is not allowed in todays Family Court System.).
Throw in holidays, vacation days etc, and you will ‘ALWAYS’ fall just short of that 122 nights measure for joint ’shared’ custody unless you have other visitation as agreed upon through the Court and we all know that is not going to happen; too many incentives for the Custodial parent, to include the financial incentives for the County, State and Federal level budget offices. (Supporting our economy and those in office that receive ‘proficiency awards’.).
Ok, lets add 1 more night each week to the mix and now we have a difference of only 44 nights per year. Add vacations and holidays and this balances out pretty well indeed. However, look what it does for the custodial parent? It takes away the incentives for the Custodial parent. This is why, the system works. This is why Joint Custody is handed out like candy and Joint ‘Shared’ Custody is so extremely hard to come by. All judges and family courts are taught that fathers are only trying to get out of paying child support. Well, I’m here to tell you that Custodial parents are just as likely to deny the father to GAIN child support. You see the argument doesn’t hold water. Doesn’t equal parenting time, which includes emotional support and financial responsibility of a child when they are with you, constitute child support?
So, in reality, when you strip away all the brain washing and bribery, assert the REAL best interest of the child, you will see that Child Support Enforcement and the Family courts are acting AGAINST the best interest of the child by creating of itself the poisonous environment that allows the destruction of families and their separated children. Child Support Enforcement and the Family Courts are the cause of Parental Alienation. We must remove the Title IV-D incentives, and remove the adversarial nature of family courts to maintain moral, ethical, and continued mental health of our children by awarding equal parenting from both parents.
As long as there continues to be Title IV-D Incentives; (tax payer money awarded to the State), President Bush’s “Deficit Reduction Act”; ($25 Service Fees that have nothing to do with Child Support services, but was implemented to reduce the Federal Deficit), Penalties for States; (Loss of revenue for State budget), FMS Federal Management Service (which routes ‘every single penny’ collected across the United States through the Federal Banking Reserve)… As long as the Custodial Parent, County, State and Federal Government continues to make money off from your children, JOINT ‘SHARED’ PHYSICAL CUSTODY will continue to be unheard of.
This rediculous system is tearing my family apart. Once again, a worthless parent, collecting so much money from us monthly is still collecting welfare! We need to be able to allow non custodial parents the right to sign over all rights. If we don’t visit the child, why should we be stuck? Men have no rights! The woman has the last decision once pregnancy is determined, therefore, she should be responsible. Come on America
It appears that this issue is finally being address it’s terrible how they do us. Like if you had the money you would want to take care of your sons and daughters. Just another tool to keep us a tie up in the system. Please believe!
Child support laws were originally meant to help mothers and children left behind by a father. The mother had no means to make an income due to having been a homemaker and therefore not being able to go into the workforce without proper training.
This has not been exactly the case for most families the last 30 years and certainly not the case today. Most fathers want to be in their kids lives and many want to share the responsibilities of caregiving and raising their children. Why are we still today assuming the father is out there only working and “still” must be the breadwinner when many women have careers with good incomes.
And, what about the fathers who have significant amount of time with their children, share custody and those who want to have more time? If we truly want the best interests of the children and for those fathers who have proven that they are just as capable to nurture and guide their children, then be true to the idea of “best interest of the children”.
I share custody of my daughter with 40% of the time. Plus I pickup my daughter from school 4 days a week. But, her mother is jealous of my relationship with my daughter. She even signed her up for several weeks of summer camps just so that I don’t spend much time with my daughter during the week due to the fact that I work weekend nights. She has mentioned several times that it was unfair that she has to work during the week and that I had the week free. I would love to be able to help fathers who want to be invovled more in their kids’ lives.
I have court in about 4 hours. I am being charged with Contempt of court for “Wilfully disobeying a court order to pay support.
I am 23 years old and live in PA. First off I don’t drive/own a car It’s hard to find work in my area concidering I live in the country. Sad thing is My girlfriend dropped support back in April 2010 as well as my arrearages. She signed the papers and they told her it was done but I would have to pay back a portion of my balance to “Cash assistance” that she is on. About 2 weeks ago I got mail and there it was. I’m being charged with “Contemp of court”. After she “dropped support” I didn’t get anything in the mail from Domestic Relations about missed payments or anything. I thought to myself thank GOD it’s over. I was wrong. My fault for not calling domestics to confirm. I hate dealing with them though. They told her yesterday when she called to see what was going on that it never went through because she is on cash assistance. Even though they reduced the cash she was receiving from Assistance. I really don’t know what I am going to do. Im enrolled in LCCC for the fall semester….
I dated a girl for two weeks. She got pregnant. First she said she would have an abortion that I paid for. When I learned that she didn’t do it, she aid she spent the money. She then said she was giving it up for adoption. I filled out pages and pages of paperwork for the adoption agency. Then, months later, I was sued for Child Support - she lied again. It ruined my life. I have no job and no money anymore because of this. When I am lucky enough to get a job, they take 51% of my checks immediately, making it impossible to live. No DNA Test was done even though I requested it. She was with other men as well as me I later found out. I want this to be over before I kill myself.
Thanks to Manny, that recomended this site . I believe there is no justice for the American fathers, and beleve the system is benifiting from it.
X
All,
The Florida Child Support Enforcement system is a scam. I used to never believe that until my ex-husband used this system to take custody of my son away from me, abuse me by using the court system when I didn’t give in to his demands and then, the worst thing….he abused my son. He’s lucky he’s not dead. After my son was brave enough to disclose the abuse to the authorities (who didn’t prosecute the pervert because of the child support dispute between us), I was finally able to get my son out of that pedophile’s presence. You should know that my son took and passed a polygraph about the abuse and the assessor from the sheriff’s office reported that my son is suffering from severe depression and trauma and should avoid his own biological father for safety reasons, so what my son said was indeed true.
I am still involved in a disgusting battle with Florida Department of Revenue, Child Support Enforcement and I feel so bad for all of you as I have experienced some of the same circumstances. I have been successful in getting the state to open an investigation into my case, although they are trying to cover up their misconduct. I have a website that I created only to tell our story and to let others know what is happening to us because of this broken system. I have also uploaded contacts that I have accumulated over my past 12 months of fighting for others to use if you they could help. I am just trying to right the many wrongs in my case, get my son and I out from under the threat of abuse by proxy from my ex-husband (domestic violence) and get the DOR CSE agency to stop aiding and abetting my ex in his criminal acts.
The web-site is http://www.foreverprotectingmyson.com. Thanks for listening to me and I wish everyone luck with what I am sure is a nightmare with the child support system.
NOTE from Admin. I have made a permanent link of your website to the left of our Petition. My prayers for you and your son will always be upon my heart.
My two boys were taken into into protective custody after DHS found out that the VA was paying me compensation for Traumatic Brain Injury, PTSD, and Major Depression. That was my mistake telling the case worker who came to visit the boys and I. After two years of battling with DHS (ADAPT treatment-passed, anger management treatment-passed, constant nagging for my VA medical records which the VA refused to disclose to them, and parenting classes) they decide that I can never parent alone. The wife and I couldn’t parent them together, so I decided in the best interest of the boys to sign them over for adoption.
My child support is still incurring monthly amounts, even though they said that all I would have to pay was past due.
NO MORE DEBTORS PRISON!
B
why
Time for Child Support, CPS, and court reform(s) in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts and the State of Rhode Island and Providence Plantations as well as the rest of the nation and world to have Shared Parenting (Joint Physical Custody as well as Joint Legal Custody) the default expectation for families with children and at the time of a child’s birth even if the parents may not be married.
i just can’t believe domestic relations anymore. i’ve been doing this 12 yrs now with no problems with paying or paying increases. but now, they are ready to increase it again. and to a point where i will be left with nothing to live off to make my own bills. i do not waste money now. and my kids are already sick of coming to my place because i cannot afford to do things with them like their mothers. it doesn’t matter to d r if you are a goodparent or a bum. i think they rather prefer you to be a bum. it’ seems like they like to ruin a parents relationship with their kid(s).
C
I have seen to many children and fathers in circumstances due to the lack of rights for most fathers if they are unable to afford legal representation or even be able to go to court to defend their rights to see their child. I think that the current laws that protect many of these mothers and do nothing to protect the fathers creates a lack of responsibility in would be mothers who believe that they can have as many children as they wish and not really have to support them…and even give negligible care so as to have more monies for themselves. These old stereotypes that set men up as providers and women up as nurtures is ridiculous it rarely applies these days, roles are versatile. Actually if the roles were reversed (since this is an equal society and could be right) we would be less condemning of women I think, if they could not afford excessive “child tax” lets just call it that, “child tax” rather than support fore that is precisely what this has become. Support should not be considered simply monetary.
This is not currently a nation of equality as long as these laws remain as they are. We have rights for every person in this country except for today’s fathers, interesting. This effects ever one and everything as it filters through.
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there is no justice for fathers, I believe the system is benefiting from it. i hope this works.
ohio chilld supports laws suck bad!! i can even see my son but 4 times a month. and pay 533 a month
i pray this works child support is a scam
I have been with Mike for four years, we have a three year old son together and between us 3 daughters. His ex-wife used the child support system to make his life a living hell. She calls every week if not every day, works under the table so they can’t track her money, uses the child support to go out and party with, she doesn’t even take care of her children, her sister and mother do. All she cares about is the money, she does not care about the kids and things became even worse three years ago when both her daughters said they wanted to come live with us….well I don’t blame them considering everyother week its a different man being brought around them. The child support system is corrupt, it screws men and women alike that have to pay….it takes the side of the parent with the children and does not consider that they may be abusing the system…..I could only hope that the whole thing is taken away. I know personally I have paid for my own daughter…she is 18 years old and I have never gotten a dime nor did I ask for one…screw that crap and screw him…she is mine and I did it on my own…I have the right to say she is what she is because of me.
count me in.
I dont understand why there aren’t many more signatures on here. Its seems Americans have become so docile and complacent to being abused by our leaders. We have become a nation of, Jello for brains, slaves. I am concerned that my government abuses me, lies to my face and uses me. Why aren’t more people upset about this? America was built by patriotic citizens that questioned and shaped their government. What ever happened to those people? Take a stand, turn off those mind numbing reality shows and spread the word..
FROM ADMINISTRATOR. Dear Padro, I Truly do not understand myself. 40,000 plus people have passed through this Petition and at present we have approx. 800 signatures. Every ‘SINGLE’ tax payer is paying for these atrocities, (to include suicides), and how in the hell they can turn their back? “What I’ve done unto the least of my brethren”, Truly comes to mind and heart when I see the blatant ‘I’m smiling, so I don’t care about those who suffer around me, nor the next generation of victims…’ In my opinion, we’ve lost our Country in so very many ways and people don’t seem to care as long as thier world is running smoothly.
Shakespeare forgot to include the judges
My bf has been payed up every bu last month cause of my seizure medicine and having drive 4 hrs away other doctors is a hole in pocket and he only $150.00 beheaded in payment but there saying he is $310.00 we had my father recheck it only and it he came $150.00 beheaded as well.Now my bf cousin hasn’t payed kid support in year and half there not anything about him but my has been paying for 8 years and there can harassing him and throw him in jail twice now cause he missed one payment.But his cousin who hasn’t paid for year and half is allowed walk free is not right.My bf hasn’t seen his seen lil girl since she 3 months old and she will be 9 in dec 2010.His ex gf stand if front of judge told them she doesn’t allow him see her which in are state visiten rights are allowed but sheis breaking the agreement term and they told him get a lawyer.We don’t even know if she still in the states neither does the court house cause she don’t update her address.His lil girl don’t know who real dad is cause she her mom keeps switching men the reason I know so well we where close friends at one time until she pulled this.
what ever i can do i will please contact me if you need someone to stand somewhere to get signautres
Lets see I owe 50,000 dollars went through 5 years of depresion 4 years with out my driving license 4 years with out my occupational license all my recreational licences mean while my kids were spending more time with me then they were there mothers in the end i was forced to join them cause i sure as hell couldnt beat them.i went on tanf. cause that was the only way to get my license back so i could get my kids back and fourth cause by tyhis time i had custody of them ive never recieived a penny in support anyway i will be in debt for ever with this child support and soon they will take all my licences once again.thats just part of my story the story of destroying the man i was and now im this person that will never own or have anything but ia bill that will never get payed.if ever laws needed to be changed.maybe some 1 needs to take a closer look at the big picture and realize maybe its the mothers that should be paying as well for money they didnt realy need cause they should of stayed home where they were well taken care of.Its to easy for a woman to leave get set up in a house and have an all expences paid vacation.
It’s time for the government to get their greedy hands out of our family issues!
I’ve been a slave to child support for over 30 yrs. now. Long story but the fact remains that slavery was not abolished with the Emancipation Proclomation.
For too long the system has force the NCP into poverty and underemployment. It’s time for a change!
we need to get more organised . the public must be made aware. what if they began treating other debts in this same manner as child support. this is slavery. this is why we fought the revolution in the first place. we americans are supposed to be the greatest culture on the planet. but we havn;t learned. history does indeed repeat its self
Iis time to stand and shout. TAKE MY MONEY AND EVERY THING I OWN
BUT DON’T YOU DARE COME BETWEEN ME AND MY CHILDREN
There is also another petition at http://www.petitiononline.com for “non-custodial parental rights”, please everyone sign this one also, change will only come if we all pressure
the lawmakers for it, also The Brady Amendment U.S. Code title 42, 666 section A-9-c
Stating that ” (c) not subject to retroactive modification by such state or by any other state;” MUST BE REPEALED OR AMENDED TO BE EQUITABLEY FAIR, this clause
prohibits any reevaluation, modification under any circumstances at this time, while
countless thousands are being victimized and criminalized every day because of
inaccurate support order information that the Government says we have no right to have corrected, this is utter bullshit, our rights are being violated & our lives destroyed.
I took care of my kids all their life while their mother, did what ever it is she was doing including stripping. My girlfriend took time out of work to help take care of my kids. ater seven years my ex decided to take the kids and immidiately reinstated child support she had filed while the kids were with me and my girlfriend. Now I OWE $30,000 plus in back child support and pay $600 per month on my $15 dollars an hour paycheck. i never went to court they just started taking money out of my check.
At one point after i realized she had filed for support while I had the kids and she was collecting public aid, I confranted her and she ended up signing an agreement with me that said I didn’t owe any child support and didn;t have to pay anymore, IT WAS SIGNED AND NOTORIZED . But now the child support claims it lost even though it shows I had a zero balance since the time we signed the agreement. SO now i have to pay for her and her husbands living expenses. Whatever happened to good old America?
Some women run a child support business. HAVING KIDS SO THEY CAN GET CHILD SUPPORT MONIES FROM THE KIDS DADDIES OR WHOEVER THEY CAN SET UP
I have been in the court system for over 4 years, and paid thousands to attorneys, this current system is broke and needs immediate reform! New Mexico is the worst state in the union as far as being corrupt goes, and will openly will tell you, that the system is broke, but its the best we got……Sorry.
signing and praying!
My friend just had a hearing and has to pay child support to her ex. He makes 30.00 bucks and hour plus has a live in girlfriend who works. MY friend cant even make a car payment , plus many financial issues. These are laws that can not be black and white!
People suffer ,children always suffer.
House hold finacial studies need to be done on a case to case basis. Also taking someones license? Thats the dunbest thing I ever heard!
Over the years I have heard so many stories!
humm i have been thinking about how mutch money could be saved by leting fathers do thair owen work in child support .
i have been paying child support for 35 years and i still owe 25 thousand dollars
in arrerrages is thair a light at the end of the tunnel not for me.
anyway back to problems at hand get the lic back useing the homeland securty thing
and get rid of all chiod support coletion officers that are paid oh look
25$ un hour and if like my state has at least 1,000 of theam .
i am not a math geniues but 1000×25=25,000 dollars un hour just for my state alone
put information on the back of drivers lic in the magnetic strip and let the ones that owe child support work for theamself plus wear i live you have to show a drivers lic and ss card when hired slip the drivers lic threw a reader and get the info with in sec instead of waiting 2 weeks for mail.
i know of a few child molesters that have thair dl thay can drive wear ever thay want to
good going doc. but owe child support and count on your dl being gone with the wind.
oh wow ya have to carrie proof of insurance so why not carrie proof of employment
so when you get a job and you are behind on your support you can show theam proof of employment . and if it is laget employment and thair not holding out your childsupport money thay are in line for a law suit and if you have no proof of employment you get a ride to county till you can show reason for driveing and not supporting
oboma binladin said bush pushed some car into a ditch and he has a bad job ahead of him to get that car out of the ditch well i am not helping him get it out because with out a drivers lic i will have to push the car to wear ever obama binladin wants it .
speaking of rights i better hurry with this becuase i hear our freedom of speach will be next to go i hope this all works
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if every one wants to get things done ya have to form a group a large group make
a move on your state capital and stand your grounds at all cost if ya don`t stand togeather ya just as well get out the ky gel and head for your childsupport office
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Just one more disgrace. There is no reason for this in America.
As a working IT business professional and father, the child support award was so much that I had file for bankrupsy. The mother is on welfare and the county DA sued me and awarded the CP 25 percent of my net income. I asked for some custody and it was denied. I am now in arrears to the amount of $3000. They took my passport and told me that my next tax return would be confiscated. DCSS is rude, uncaring and don’t care if I survive or die. The CP want’s more money, the award was $1000.00 and uses it to buy tv’s, clothes for herself and a home. Meanwhile I sit in an appartment that I can barely afford. Something must change. The mediator was biased against me, even though the CP admitted to getting pregnant for financial gain.
THESE CHILD SUPPORT PEOPLE ARE ROBBING US FATHERS AND I’M GLAD THE ECONOMY IS FAILING BECAUSE GREED AND CORRUPTION IS THE MAIN REASON FOR THIS
Every child support case is different but when it comes to corruption CSE is one of a kind. I took on the CSE AGENCY in court without an attorney and won. they were ordered by the court to remove over$25,000.00 in arrears and interest. i had exposed their corruption and extortion, US Mail fraud, misapropriations of funds. i also had the child support reduced from over $1000.00 a month to just under $500.00 a month. it took just over four months of sudying the child support law and found the means to take them to court. funny thing the judge that handled the case soon resigned or retired from the bench, it maybe possible that the judge was tired of being on the wrong side? i just wished there was more good and honest judges like that one behind all Child Support Court benches. good luck don’t stop till they drop.
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Well… My husband has court in less then 24 hours for a contempt hearing..I can’t scream loud enough how the child support system is a big fraud. I made the biggest mistake of applying for medical assistance when I was pregnant with our youngest daughter… I was stupid enough to believe that becasue we were married and have been for over 15 years, and we have 4 prior children, that there would be no child support, snce we were all on the same case for medical assistance…. WRONG!!!! Now my husband is ordered to pay over twelve thousand dollars back to the state. We were making payments of a hundred dollars a month and then my husband lost his job becasue of demanding unpaid wages from his employer (that was a total of six thousand dollars). Labor and industry just won the case for my husband (almost a year later), The employer was ordered to pay $500 a month for a year. During the time of my husband being unemployed, I was hospitalized for 3 months, he was then homeless with the children and was only ever able to earn enough to keep rooms and food available for them. No payments were made until about a month and a half ago. My husband finally obtained new employment in which he used his first 2 checks to provide housing for the family. i am now a full time college student and he cares for the children.. When they arrested him for non payment (even though we started making payments) They asked for 400 dollars on bail… Tomorrow he faces the judge and possible imprisonment… No drivers License, he lost his job again because of being in Jail for 3 days, and losing his license. I fail to understand how, if the father is with the mother of the children, married and supporting the family, financially, Mentally, spirtiually and every other way possible… He can be sent to prison in the name of the Children… I never thought this would happen to us, I served this country for many years in the ARMY… My husband always was there and never abandoned his family… I was on welfare for less then a year!! (WITH NO CASH ASSISTANCE) Now they are causing him to go to jail, I will have to go on Welfare, lose my schooling and possibly my home AGAIN!!!! My children only know that the STATE puts families in foster care and prison for MONEY, not for crimes against Society!!! It is all bull ****!! I wish there was a way to put a stop to this raping of the American family!!
The current uprising in TUNISIA (North Africa) is a perfect example of what will take place in the USA if the government continues to oppress us with their “BIAS CHILD SUPPORT LAWS”
Non-Custodial parents need to unite and get out into the streets. We need REFORM NOW
1) No drivers License suspension
2) No Jail time.
3) Stop passport seizures
4) Stop destroying second families and depriving other children from eating.
Lets organize now and get into the streets.
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Here is my story. I am a mother living in michigan and paying child support of which I am capable of doing (thank the good Lord.) I have no issue paying support to my “children” but I know that more than half of these “child support” funds are going directly into my X’s pocket for his fishing, hunting, cigarettes, booze, etc. and all the while he claims he is “permanently disabled” by the state of michigan and is allowed to collect monies for SSI, food, medical and child support. He receives more than half of my income for support alone and yet doesn’t have to claim any of these monies on his income tax and receives a refund every year more than $2,000.00. Gee, isn’t that swell for not having to work but collect another hefty sum from the government. I guess he is “owed” this money by the state for his hunting and fishing trips (weekly by the way) even though he can’t “work”. I’d love to be able to afford a Private Investigator to snoop around his home just to see how “disabled” he really is. What a crock………… It’s time for reform and NOW! I can see why people commit suicide……
How do I contact you. My question to you is how far are you to presenting this in front of a goverment office. what needs to be done to make this a strong topic as was civil rights equality back in the day. I am passionate about this topic and ready to help make a sacrafice for this cause.
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I have 2 children and their father pays support to (1) dependent outside of the household to the custodial parent. He by no means fits the category of a “deadbeat” .
However, in our situation…….our household actually qualifies for food stamps, free school lunch meals for our 2 children, medicaid, liheap, etc. as child support deductions are taken in to account.
The household which support is made, does not receive any assistance. They too also have (1) child together.
Right before Christmas my 2 kids father became unemployed and had “no income”. Immediately, he applied and sent resumes out to countless jobs. Mid January he finally was approved for a job to start training but that job did not come soon enough as now he is being held in contempt for willing not paying his order of support.
Payors want to committ suicide? Someone please tell me how you explain to your 7 yr old and 12 yr old that their dad may be going to jail?
The best interest of the kids? Does anyone realize how many depressed children we have in this world and are under a pysicians care and are medicated? It’s just not the adults. Children are depressed and are just as likely to have suicidal tendicies when families are torn apart.
Our kids have been without for months, meaning the kids in this institution. However, if the payee was without work for 3 months it would not matter. The custodial parent can go sign up for cash assistance I suppose to supplement the loss from the payor.
If custodial parents are not willing to work or only work part-time to collect a higher check. The the courts should grant custody to the other party.
My children were born with a “heart” not a $ “sign”
Bless you all ~
I have 43% custody of my son, but still pay FULL child support to Mommy (who has always worked full time, and has a decent career).
My parents divorced in ‘92′ when i was 12. My older brother lived w/ my father and my younger brother and I lived w/ our mother. In 1996 my father was arrested by friend of the court, three times in the same day. My mother dropped the case but FOC says my father still owes $90k. Over $60k is just in interest since ‘96′. The interest charges are double, almost triple the amount originally owed. My father has been disabled for 4 years now due to a work accident. Attorneys want to settle for little compensation because “You won’t settle because you owe friend of the court.” They make it nearly impossible to get any information other than amount owed. At least half of my fathers checks were taken while he was working, yet my mother never saw a dime. So now the state (MI) has taken thousands of $ from my father, which seems to have just disappeared. I’m 30 y.o. now, you would think there should be some way my brothers and I could get together and have the case dropped, since our mother is spiteful and unwilling to sign off on a case that was already dropped 15 years ago. Sounds to me like the state is enabling welfare fraud.
So glad I found this site. With enough signatures we may be able to get our elected officials to at least think about doing something helpful.
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We are under a bondage that we will never be able to get out of. My husband ex wife works for child support. My husband has been unemployed, on disability. We offered her thousands at one point when we had it from relatives. But she wanted the arrears too. Which we could not afford to do. She would not take it. We are afraid of the courts system We have not received a break at anytime due to hardship. It is crazy that this could happen in the US. I really don’t think America understands what is happening. We need to be able to live and eat. Child support system needs to be reformed. They need to make a way that would help the parents who want to support their kids be able to. Are custodial who are with their kids called dead beats because they are going through hardship? No they are not. Will they have to make up for their lack in hard times by paying 2-3 times what they have lacked in the past. No. Someone has to hear our cry for help!
Thank you.
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I really need help with my case here in Ohio. Please is there anyone that could contact me: I have 15 prison months over my head for my C-support cases.
I have always been active in my children’s lives, or I have fought to be active in their lives.
The judicial violence in Ohio is highly unchecked and the enforcement tactics professionally handicap a parents ability to obtain gainful employment.
One of the mother’s even wrote to a judge on my behalf requesting an alternative to a prison sentence.
Ohio is blatantly violating several of my Constitutional and Human rights. And I am not the only one.
Thank you in advance.
Sulaiman 614-596-1904
I am a severely disabled Armed Forces Veteran and just was deemed unemployable recently (due to my conditions worsening over time).. Ohio is attempting to assign, seize, attach, and levy my VA Compensation for service-connected disabilities, even though Federal law prohibits such actions (U.S. Code, Title 38 5301 / 1159 / 3.458; and Public Law 108 - 183, 702 / Public Law 95-30).. Why are they overriding the Federal government?!?!?!
I plan on filing for disability through social security - which they can legally take a portion (up to 50%) of that.. I have never denied to support my children, evaded the obligation, and have always tried to support them. I have worked consistently and hard all my life - until I became unemployable recently as a result of my service-connected disabilities worsening over a period of time.. Now, I am under no circumstances allowed to work.
The mother has had a free ride the whole time - without having to work. Meanwhile, I have sacrificed my life being in the military and have worked the whole time without any periods of being unemployed…
I’m a mother without my son due to those “accusations” described above. I’m so far in the hole, that I don’t plan on seeing the top of the hole anytime soon. I have a daughter that lives with my husband and I, and being low income, I can’t be accepted for food stamps, I can’t get a hunting or fishing license because if I can afford to go hunting or fishing, then I can afford to pay my support. Most jobs won’t hire me due to “bad credit” because of being behind in support. When I go in to court, I’m told that $40-$75.00 for “back support” isn’t doing the job, so they RAISE my support, job or not! Sumone needs to stand up to the system, and I’ll be there with you!!!
The system is corrupt. My husband pays every month for years on arreages for a grown child so it is all back child support now. The interest is twice what he actually owes and keeps on being added where it will never be paid off. Now we went to get his license renewed and found out it is suspended and that is his job since it is a commercial license. Chid Support Enforcement does nothing gives you the run around they could care less as long as they get money. They want more even though he has paid faithfully every month since the order went into effect just to get his license back. We can’t get a loan because they have it on his credit. Now he will lose a job if he can’t get his license reinstated this makes no sense when he has paid and paid and they take our tax returns. To top it off the mother collects this money and the child did not live with her and now is grown. I understand why people work under the table, drive with suspended licenses or disappear the system makes it too hard on you.
ADMIN. NOTE: This is an Additional Comment
Obama needs to wake up and realize there are good fathers out there. Sometimes the mother pushes them away out of bitterness and turns the kids against their fathers. Many men have to pay so much child support that they can’t enjoy their visitation time with their children. These laws need to be adjusted right now. The kids are ultimately the ones suffering.
There are good fathers out there and I would like to say I am one of them. I get few precious hours to spend with my daughter and it all comes down to the facts. More time spent, less money for her. It should be about me wanting to spend time with my child, which is great for her and I love more than anything. The courts side with the CP more than the NCP without looking at the case and applying the appropriate plan. If you’re a deadbeat then you need to care for your child, but if you want to see your child more and she’s just fighting you because of the money, they need a law to address that. Good Fathers should not have to pay for the mistakes of those who choose to procreate and not care for their own flesh and blood.
I’m so sick of the lil’ “Princess Bitches”…(especially the ones that have wealthy parents that they also run to for help). They lie, get away with it, and the dads get a raw deal. What’s the use in going for a modification? The court Magistrate feels so powerful, he doesn’t even listen to the non-custodial parent! All this is too one sided, unfair, unjust, and unAmerican. What did happen to truth and justice in the American way?? I was also divorced with two children; agreed to joint physical custody; received no alimony or child support, and survived on $24 a week that was left over after my (conservative) expenses. The problem is that the “Princess Bitches” think the kids need the best of everything…including unaffordable vacations to 5 star resorts!! What on earth has this country come to? Child support reform is necessary, just like Welfare definitely needs reform!! I can’t believe that the gov’t is so ignorant to have allowed this to go on for sooooo long in this most costly manner to the taxpayers!!
My fiance pays 65% of his income to two child support orders, and he still accrues arrears every month. He is left with less than $400 a month to live off of. The laws should not be set up so that a payor cannot even support himself. That is incredibly unjust and the system is obviously corrupt. His exes do not allow him to see his children, and he has even spent jail time for arrears. Child support reform is badly needed!
The system just isnt fair for real fathers, who are there for their children.
The guys in washington, i guess, dont care about other peoples’ lives.
I have been involved with a fraud case of child suppert for many years. I have overpaid by thousands and still have all cancelled checks to prove it. My kids are 32 and 36 years old now with kids of their own. They are now trying to extort another $50,000 from me. IWhen I proved in court I did not owe the opposing attorney had the transcripts destroyed where I could not effectively appeal. He then typed up an order and got the judge to sign it saying “the parties through their attorneys agree that the amount owed is $40,337′. There is no agreement signed by me or my attorney. The opposing judge just got the judge to sign it. (My children had already emancipated at the time.) This all happened in AR and I`ve lived in TN over 20 years. It has never been a Tennessee case but now they are trying to register it in TN and the attorney who committed the fraud is practicing law in TN on the case yet he is ONLY licensed in AR. This child support fraud needs stopped! These folks sent a fake warrant for my arrest from AR to TN in 2009 and the district attorneys had to get the arrest stopped because I`ve never been accused of a crime. It`s one fraud thing after another. These folks involved all need to spend a VERY long time in prison. ! I have perfect records from 30 years of all of my allegations.
It is about time that someone addressed this because these slutty women are having kid, after kid, after kid with different daddies just to collect on TAX FREE money for being whores. Some women I can understand need child support but there are women who just have kids and refuse to get married to ABUSE the child support system there are women who make over 30,000 a year and don’t work get this money tax free and collect on food staps and welfare because they WORKED OVER the system…………………………….. they should have a child support cap that a woman can recieve no matter how many kids she has if it is not enough GO TO WORK!!!!!!!
I just made parol in augest 2011 for nonsupport.I have been looking into the reason Child Support Enforcement said I owe moore than I was aware of.I found that I was charged support for the years that I had coustody and also found out that during the same time I had coustody The child Suport Enforcement Office was chargeing me support under the same Docket # for the same son, under my sister’s name.To be charged support under the same docket # for two different women at the same time I had coustodyis just plain illegal as far as I am coursned. The case with my sister’s name is 100% false.My publick definder never inquired into the facts of the case,and from my understanding did one HELL of a job for the prosector.Any sugestions ? e-mail me at gautreauxrobert@ymail.com.
WE NEED REFORM NOW. I sign this on behalf of my 100% Service Connected Disabled Veteran who has been abused by the system.
I will have to agree … the system is corrupted!
WE NEED REFORM NOW
WE NEED REFORM NOW
Moms need to get a job and stop living off of their kids child support!
Judges are abusing their powers. This little girls are having babies and if you get behind even one month, she is the one who decides to put him in jail. THAT IS POWER AND CONTROL TO A GIRL WHO SKEEMED AND CONIVED IN A PREGNANCY PACT TO TRAP MY SON!
still paying child support have had child in my household lives with me flagler county courts are to lazy an do not do there jobs but when its the woman they will payroll deduct you in two weeks no problem but us guys we get hosed
A father should take responsibility for his actions, a mother should be willing to reconcile, and a State has no right or business involving either of these instances. May sentience bless us all.
I Personally Know several people here in Florida that are being unfairly required to pay support even though they have their children more than the mothers not all but most of the women are out drinking every night partying and going on vacations while the father is with the children buying their clothing school supplies school lunches making sure their child gets to all doctors and dentist visits and child support enforcement threatens to suspend their license when in fact they are the sole providers for their children while the mother is out drinking and patying all night something has to change the only ones getting hurt is the children
WE NEED REFORM NOW. I sign this on behalf of a100% Service Connected Disabled Veteran who has been abused by the system.
The system is CRAZY.
UNfair court system…. welcome to America! I support this petition all the way to my grave!!
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We need child support reform and we need it NOW! Give me back my driver license, my passport, my freedom!
I finally got mine payed down to zero last month after being 11,000 in arrears and since Missouri contacted Tennessee and made it a dual state case, Tennessee is refusing to (accept ?) that the child support is payed off in Missouri. Apparently they can contact each other to establish court ordered support and judgements including sticking me in jail once for 3 months but can’t contact each other to show the money has been payed off. I have spent 3 weeks arguing with child support offices and am about to contact a senator. I will contact the news and get it on television if that is also necessary..
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Unfair case of child support!
Without question reform should occur NOW!
please do something to these deadbeat mothers US fathers need help to
DOR/FL child support offices are joke, call the 800 number and wait for up to an hour or more to just have someone tell you to go to the local office. You get no results there either, they just sit behind their glass window collecting their paycheck. The system needs to be changed and I”m doing that in court.
End this unfair system! Fathers are actually out here trying and getting treated as criminals. These money hungry dead-beat mothers are being treated as mothers of the year by this crap system. Child Support??…no…..”State Support” or “Govrnment Support”. Get rid of this joke!!
Been to court several times to modify downward my child support which is only arrearages. I am re-married with other kids, one is disabled, just got laid off work, and yet they refused to modify my support for the back amount I owe. My son at issue is 20 and lives on his own. The whole system needs to be thrown out. In MN if you’re a Dad, you’re a criminal.
The current child support laws need to be reformed and I support this petition. Hardened criminals and felons have more rights than a father in the child support system. Some states require mothers who are recieiving support to provide proof in form of receipts where this money is going, it should be nationwide.
Please get these inadequate laws repealed to many Laws and no justice
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I see women who make having children a job and child support is their income. Its ridiculous! The proof that the child support is going to the children should be nationwide! I totally agree! I think the way CS is done it gives women a chance to trap men into getting the pregnant feeding them lies!
I would like to take this time to write some of my past experiences with Child Support. My Daughters Mother brainwashed my child to hate me and barely likes spending time with me,and yet I wonder why? Not to mention the fact that as soon as she was pregnant she immediately put me on child support without me knowing. I believe that since the government is providing the poor with food benefits and assistance they are looking for a way to get that money back even though that is the government responsibility. I currently live with my new family and have two beautiful boys that are twin brothers. Since I don’t have a career and my current wife makes more than I do; we decided on me staying at home and taking care of the boys (since child support ends up taking a significant amount of money out of my checks). Now they suspended my licences and cannot drive anywhere with the boys. If i were to work and pay child support for my daughter in whom which has everything she needs my check wouldn’t even cover daycare for both my boys. Me staying home just makes sense. The government needs to acknowledge that their not only punishing me but also my boys because daddy cant take them anywhere. I think tough love and luck is the government approach on this matter but what they fail to realize is that would your kids get the point if you whip them or work with them. I myself will do the jail time, but with my head held up high because truly I did whats right and whats right is staying home with my two boys. May God Bless America!
It’s time for “Occupy Family Court”
Ive been homeless after having paid $1001 for the last eight years to oregon child support system. I have 3 childen with the youngest being 15. Have 3 more years to go then I can hopefully get out of poverty and the homeless shelters. Thanks to this wonderfull government we call the good ole usa. We sure need to change something in this terrible system. Goodluck to all…
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Can’t anything be done about the corrupt child un-support system ? I feel like a prisoner in my own country and I havn’t done anything wrong. Thanks to the oregon child support system I’ve been homeless going on eight years now for paying my support. Something has to change but I don’t think it will,it’s going to get worse before it gets better.
Greg Morse, father
Let’s make it GOOOOOOOD for the kids ONLY; NOT THEIR GOLD DIGGGGGGING MOTHERS OR FATHERS. Yes, I signed and would do it AGAIN; AGAIN ;AGAIN; AND AGAIN.
THE CHILD OR CHILDREN DID NOT DO ANYTHING; AND THEY SHOULD NOT HAVE TO GET CAUGHT UP, OR HAVE TO SUFFER BECAUSE THEY WERE BORN TO DUMB PARENTS, WHO CAN NOT WORK THINGS OUT FOR THE BETTERMENT OF THE BY-PRODUCT OF “THEIR” SEXUAL PLEASURES.
ONE LAST THING- THE PARENT WHO KNOWINGLY GOT THE MONEY WHEN THEY KNOWINGLY KNEW THEY DID NOT DESERVE IT- SHOULD BE REQUIRED TO PAY IT “ALL BACK W/ INTEREST” ONCE THEIR “ass” GOT OUT OF JAIL ‘AFTER’ SERVING A L-O-N-G TIME FOR THIEF.
THIS WOULD BE FAIR AND WOULD DEFINITELY STOP THE COURT AND ” GOAL DIGGGGGGERS” FROM EXPLOITING A BAD SYSTEM.
God help us all. This system has tormented me for many years. They are just bullies, plain and simple.
I just really think that this is an openly high profile form of robery. Taken american citizen and putting them in poverty. Creating their own poor economy issues. Basicly if you have kids who you don’t live with your always in debt for life with no future. No body should have to live like a peasant, man the emotional beat down. I GIVE MY RESPECT TO THE PEOPLE WHO KEEP THERE HEAD UP AND ATTEMPT TO STILL SURVIVE! !THIS IS AMERICA?
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The child support division needs to be overhauled as soon as possible. May God help us win this battle to preserve not only our current families but our future families.
As a non-custodial parent whose required by law to pay child support, I should have the right to know where my money is going to make sure that it’s not being used for drugs, alcohol, gambling or non-child support related expenses. Any expenses that are non-related should be deducted and reduce the amount being paid to the custodial parent. This will help stop the abuse in the system and many will be happy to pay the child support knowing that it’s being used accordingly. Abusing the child support system is no different from stealing and extortion and it’s time for a change! Less bitterness and resentfulness due to the unfair system might just help bring families back together again.
Reform is so needed. The system is broken and its not fair when good fathers suffer.
17 years later, I am going to regain custody of my son. He has been removed from his mother’s care 5 times in his life, and only ONCE,I was notified. My ex, has mothered 5 children, from 5 different men, and USES her children to support herself, and her habits. I am DISGUSTED, with this society, DISGUSTED, with this government, and I am not going to allow this any longer. Massachusetts, and South Carolina, be prepared for the nastiest fight you have ever seen. You hurt me, but more importantly,you hurt,MY SON. I have a NEW saying for you, “HELL HATH NO FURY, LIKE A FATHER..SCORNED!”
OCCUPY WALLSTREET AND GOVERNMENT! OUTSOURCE ALL POLITICIANS@!
As a single mother yes I recieve child support. Me and my sons father get along very well and I have ever lowered his payments bc he was going through rough times. It really makes me sick that alot of these mothers out there sit at home ,live off the state and collect support. I work 2 jobs to support my child and pay all my bills. I give credit to you guys out there that care enough to pay and want custody yourselves.. good luck guys, you deserve it..
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I love my 5yr old little baby girl, more then I love myself. And along with agreeing with this petition, I strongly think that all fathers yes “all” fathers (unless proven unfit) should have equal Automatic rights to their children.
After we split, my children were stable in the home they have had since before the divorce for a year and a half, while I struggled nearly solely supporting them without financial help from the father. He went on several trips, blowing our retirement to go to CA, Vegas, and Hawaii while I used all my vacation and sick time to watch the children. When he was around, he was just basically their daycare. One year ago, the father filed for half custody when he ran out of his retirement money, because with exactly equal custody, I would actually owe him money. This would tear the children away from the home they have known from as far back as they can remember, as this home took two incomes to support before. The evaluator, clearly biased, and with no one else to review, gave the father half-custody, but made sure to put that no one should pay child support, thinking that would show me that’s not all he wanted. An evaluator’s decision is regarded as law by the courts, and there was no way I could fight it. The children were ripped out of the happy stability and free opportunity to stay in whichever home they wanted. For a few months, he let me have them some of the extra time he was given by verbal agreement, then he decided to go back on his word and took them when he said he didn’t want them and simultaneously applied for child support like he signed he wouldn’t do. Is ‘joint legal custody’ with ‘equal time sharing’ the same as ’shared custody’? What law can I show CSED that would say I don’t need to pay him? He has a live-in girlfriend to help him with his bills, and I have no one helping me. For their stability they need this house…
Please help us!!
Help!
Things need to change & we need to be heard!!!
These women need to be held accountable for the money they receive and the parental alienation they force on these young impressonable children.
this system is definitely broken nd needs to be fixed…..too many people are being hurt and too many lives are being destroyed and irreparably harmed…..
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To whom it may concerns:
I am a resident of PHX, AZ. I have been abroad for the past year living in the worst poor situations till now my health is getting affected. I can’t afford flying back and start my life back in the states. I owe arrears child support and I don’t know what to do to start breathing. I am very troubled day in and day out.
I had my life in order and I owned a good business in AZ. I am a man that always had it together until I had children with her..
Please let me know if you find in your heart to help me.
I am sending you this feeling so sad and troubles but though there might be some light and someone that is unique that could give me a hand.
Sorry I posted nothing. I am a father in this situation,I love my children dearly and I am missing out on helping raise them, because I didn’t want to move from a small town to Salem to follow my ex wife’s family..and I am now paying dearly for it..and so are my children! Please help us..don’t ear families apart like this.
I hope this works..I would love for my husband to be able to be more a part of his children’s lives if he’s going to be paying so much..I would also like to be able to live decently and be able to get the girls things without having to pull out a loan to buy them bikes! I have an amazing husband and he is a more amazing father! Please help him and his children that love him so much!!
Ohio child support laws are destroying families and fathers. Reform is needed.
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Change is needed NOW!!!!
My story is the same as all the rest. Why am I turned in to a criminal if I lose my job or am laid off how can I encure debt for money I dote have, or didn’t make? If the child is under the law entitled to 20% then why isn’t that adjusted when my income goes down?
Your putting people in jail with murders and rapist who committed no crime! How is this in any way shape or for right?
I have been paying for 12 years, I lost my job and was out of work about a year, I got behind on child support and they didn’t care, I have been trying to modify my child support, they said yes it looks like we can lower it butttt we can’t summons your ex-wife because she is avoiding us, so I’m going thru hell for almost two years now and constantly being threaten by child support and still haven’t summons her yet, come on almost two years I’m losing everything.
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State of Florida don’t care bout us………………. We are nothing to them.
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The current system is shameful, a fraud and a humiliation to all decent American people.
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We need a change in our child support its bad system dose not work to many people being put in jail. My suggestion to all people being affected by this . Go to your County get off the Votes List and don’t for any politician until they change the law . Hello your rights are being violated why Vote , if our government wants to stop us in our tracks well lets Not vote any more and stop them in their tracks